You just found out your partner has been unfaithful.
You need answers.

If you’re here, you might be asking questions like:

“What happened?!”
”What else do I not know?!”
”How can I ever trust again?”
”Will I ever feel like myself again?”

You’re Not Crazy. You’re Not Alone.
Betrayal Trauma from a Bonding Science Perspective.

Kelly Bourque, LMFT and Founder of Red Therapy Group, has created a video series with you in mind. In this series, you will find a safe place where you can feel normal. You will learn that your reactions to what happened have an actual scientific explanation. This is a huge relief. From this place, you can breathe again and HEAL.

$49.99
One time

Private, Accessible Videos At Your Own Pace The course includes 37 concise videos (over 5 hours of content) that you can watch at your own pace. You will find clarity and empowerment. Included in the purchase are 37 corresponding journal prompts to help consolidate your learning.

“I am so thankful for this video series…”

After watching…I began to feel less anxious. I was validated in my feelings, and it has helped me tremendously. Also, being reminded I'm not alone in this sad journey has made me feel better.

I'm still mad and extremely hurt, but I have hope now and believe there is light at the end of this horrific tunnel...Kelly, thank you for putting this information out there for those who need it. For me, it has been invaluable!

- Anonymous, Age 63

“Digestible, compassionate help…”

I don't know how people could get used to these realities of betrayal without frequent, digestible, compassionate help…Thank you!

- Susan, 34

Course Curriculum:

  • Introduction & Journal Prompts

  • What is Betrayal Trauma?

  • It's Not Your Fault

  • Bonding Science

  • PTSD Responses

  • Reactive Interactive Pattern

  • How to Build Back Trust

  • How Do I Know When to Be Done?

  • For Those That Want to Leave

  • For Those That Want to Stay

  • How Emotion is Processed

  • What Can I Expect Long Term?

  • Negative Interactive Pattern

  • Loss of Identity

  • When a Good Memory Turns Bad

  • Nightmares

  • What to Tell Kids?

  • Who to Tell and What to Share?

  • What About Sex?

  • Notice Your Body

  • To Not Exist in Your Partner's Eyes

  • There's No Lightswitch for Trust

  • What If It's Me?

  • The Range of Emotion After Discovery

  • Finding Out vs Being Told

  • Disclosure in a Process Way

  • Checking Behavior

  • The Search For Answers

  • When Your Guard is Down

  • Anniversaries

  • Villianizing Your Partner

  • Grounding Techniques

  • Grieving the Relationship You Thought You Had

  • What to Expect in Couples Therapy?

  • How to Choose A Couples Therapist

  • What Does Healing Actually Look Like?

  • Closing Video